Posts Tagged ‘Dating Tips’

Pick-Up Lines 101

Friday, August 27th, 2010

First rule of pick up lines: don’t ever use them.  They are tactless, stupid, and never a turn on.  They can be used with friends or with girls you never want to date in order to get a laugh, but you will never impress a girl with a pick up line I promise you that.  Pick up lines these days are much more subtle and if you are good enough then they won’t even be recognized as pickup lines until after the contact has been made and digits have been handed over.  Pick up lines can just be used as a term for “the first thing you say to a gorgeous woman you have never met before”.  In the 21st century there are few tips that you can take into consideration to help you get that first date secured.

First of all, approach her with something other than the obvious.  Girls love it when a guy can be playful and not take himself too seriously.  If you immediately approach a girl and ask her what classes she has, who is in her family, and what her hobbies and interests are, you are going to walk away empty handed.  I mean, how boring is that?  No creativity in the approach means no creativity in the relationship.  First impressions are usually really big with people so you will need to think quickly and have something witty to say that will catch her off guard.  Try going up to a girl in the library and asking her where they keep the animals.

Another good tip is to just make sure you confidently approach someone.  The longer you stand around nervously looking at the girl you want to approach, the more you are leaning towards creepy.  If you see a cute girl then just go all out and approach her right off the bat.  The more time you waste sulking around, the less confident you will seem.  Also, even if she is gorgeous, pretend like it is no big deal that you two are talking.  Act interested but not overly interested and it will keep her wanting more.

The After Date Text

Saturday, August 14th, 2010

In our culture today, there are a few things that have become a standard as technology has been enhanced.  One of these things it the “after date text”.  If you are  bit older you may never heard of it, but if you are a bit younger than you most definitely heard of it and you know how important it is.  The idea is simple.  In today’s world, people text each other.  A lot.  While this has kind of ruined normal communication between human beings, it can also be a way to express your feelings without feeling sheepish or confrontational.  The way it applies to dating is that when you have a really good date with a person, you can send an after date text to let them know that you really did have a good time and that you would like to do it again. This is the ultimate in clues after a date for a guy to know he did alright.

The etiquette of the after date text goes like this.  The girl is supposed to send it.  This is a way for a girl to show her appreciation for the date that just happened.  More than likely the guy asked her out, planned a date, payed for it, and the least that the girl can do is just thank him after the date.  When you send the after date text it means that you had a really good time and that you would like to do it again.  If the date was horrible then by all means don’t bother sending it.  But if the date was good then please send it!  Guys are always a bit concerned after dates if it went well and if the girl had fun.  This is a way you can put his fears to rest and let him know it was a great time.

Guys, don’t send the after date text.  Even if you had a ton of fun and really wan to talk to her, refrain from sending it or you will look desperate.  Just wait til late the next day to say anything so you keep your cool.

Looking for Positive Dating Signs

Sunday, August 1st, 2010

Let’s say that you go on a date with some girl or some guy and you think you might really be into them.  How do you gauge if they are into you back?  What kind of hints should you look for to be able to get a better idea of how you are measuring up?  Is there anything that you can do to be able to solicit some kind of positive or negative reaction?  Here are a few dating tips that you can take into consideration when you are out on your first couple of dates with a person that you may really like.

The first way to gauge interest is by your conversation.  Some people are just not very touchy feely, and the only way to really know how they are feeling about the date is to see what kinds of conversations you are having.  If you have chemistry on your date, it is a good sign that the other person is probably into you.  One good way to check this is to take a step back and look at your discussion topics.  You know that conversation has run dry when you hit some awkward silences and find yourself having to ask them about school, family, or occupation.  While these are important things to know, they are also the fall back questions for anyone that isn’t having good conversation.  If these topics come up naturally without having to force the conversation then you know you are in business.

A good way for you to gauge if the other person is into you is to occasionally tease them and see if they respond with some sort of physical motion.  This could be the girl grabbing your arm, or the guy touching the small of your back.  Any response that involves physical interaction is a good sign because people who aren’t interested do not want to give you the idea that they enjoy your physical touch.  So if you think things are going well but aren’t really sure, then try doing a little teasing and see how they respond.

How To Get a Girl’s Phone Number

Monday, July 26th, 2010

The hardest part of dating is usually just introducing yourself to the lucky candidate.  It can be scary and a bit overwhelming, especially if the girl you are trying to date is really pretty.  Too many times we see a really cute girl at the grocery store or cafe and have a strong desire to ask her out.  We then talk ourselves out of it because we think to ourselves that there is no way that this girl doesn’t have a boyfriend and that she must already be dating someone.  We let the opportunity pass us by and then we hate ourselves inside for being such big wusses.  The truth of the matter is that you only live once and you really have nothing to lose by approaching girls.  Granted, you may crash and burn a few times when you start being courageous but eventually you will be able to overcome it and become a flirting professional.

If you think a girl is too pretty to not have a boyfriend, then chances are that a lot of other guys have had the same feelings and are wussing out too.  Many times the extremely cute girls don’t ever asked out because people just assume that they are already dating.  If you can take some initiative, it may be the best decision you have ever made in your life.  Here are few things you need to have in order to approach a cute girl and get her number.

1. Confidence-  Girls love a guy with confidence.  Whether or not you have any idea of what you are doing when you approach the girl, just act like you do.  Girls love a man who knows what he wants and takes a step out to get it.

2. Charm- You don’t have to be a slimy snake to impress someone, but it is refreshing to have a guy throw in some charming or witty comments to catch the girl off guard.

3. Don’t beat around the bush- talk for a little while, but remember you will have time to get to know the girl once you have secured a date with her.

Some Dating Tips To Ensure a Second Date

Friday, July 23rd, 2010

Have you ever been in a scenario where you went on a date with somebody, like them, but were never able to get a second date?  This can be extremely annoying if you are a picky dater, because finding someone you like may not happen very often.   In order to make sure that this doesn’t happen there are a few tips and guidelines that you can follow to make sure you get another shot with them.  This article will help you to realize that you do, in fact, have complete control over getting a second date.

Everything you do during the first date should be geared towards going on another date.  While you don’t want to scare off the girl you are asking out by making too many comments about what you are going to do in the future the occasional hint will be able to plant the idea in the mind.  When you find something that you have in common you can test out the situation by saying “We should totally go do that sometime!”.  If the response you get is genuine then you can tell that she is probably into and wouldn’t mind going on a second date.

Throughout the date, treat your guest with respect.  Open up car doors and building doors, and let her order her food first.  Also, make sure to refrain from using any filthy language or by being critical of comments that she makes.  Last of all, no matter how well the date went, don’t kiss her. If you can not kiss your date for at least a couple dates it will really keep her intrigued and can only increase your chances of going out with her again and really making a relationship out of it.

As you follow these simple dating tips you can make sure that you get a second date and improve your chances of landing that catch of a lifetime.