Posts Tagged ‘tips for dating’

Having Fun in The Snow!

Friday, January 28th, 2011

Why does it always seem like everyone dates more in the summer?  It is only because people are usually not creative enough to think of things to do in the winter!  The truth of the matter is that the winter time can be one of the most romantic and magical seasons of the year.  If you can be creative and think of some fun things to go do then you can really impress your date and enjoy yourself while you are at it. Here are some dating ideas that can be used to help spice up your love life during those cold winter months.

One of the best winter dates to try is that of being a kid again.  This can entail many different things but I’m talking about when you were a kid and you got snowed into the house and your imagination started to run wild.  You would build a blanket fort, grab a flashlight, and eat some popcorn while playing your favorite games.  Well, what is stopping you from doing that now?  If your date is the fun and adventurous type then why not grab some sheets, create a tent, pull in a tv and watch your favorite cartoons or movies from when you were a kid.  Or you could grab your old Yahtzee! game or maybe some hungry hungry hippos to keep yourselves entertained.

Last of all, you might try utilizing the cold weather for your own benefit.  Grab some snowshoes and go for a hike to look at the beautiful ice and snow formations.  Or maybe you grab a couple sleds and hit the nearest hill in  your neighborhood.  You could also build a snowman, create some snow angels, or even make a snow cave that you can cuddle in!  The best part of these types of dates are when you go back inside to sip on some hot chocolate and warm yourselves up by the fire.

Having An Optimistic Attitude

Saturday, August 14th, 2010

Dating can be one of the best times in our lives.  It gives you an opportunity to meet all kinds of new people and to really search out and find someone you are compatible with.  Dating is all about your attitude.  If you are pouty and think you will never find that person that will make you happy, then you are probably right.  But if you go into it kind of like a detective on a manhunt, you can make it into a fun endeavor.   Every person that didn’t work out leads you closer to the person who finally will.  If you can get over that initial attitude problem then you really have come a long way.

The first thing to do when you are trying to have a good attitude is to remember that there IS somebody out there that will make you happy.  You have to at least believe this a little bit or you would never date in the first place.  Remember that there are millions upon millions of people in this world and one of them is sure to be compatible with you.  If you tag yourself as a lost cause then you really be a lost cause because you will have stopped trying.  You just need to learn to never give up and to have faith that you can find somebody.

Next, your reap what you sow.  Lots of people just wait around at home and wonder why they aren’t dating anybody and pity themselves all the time.  The truth is, if you don’t get yourself out there meeting people then you probably never will date anybody.  You need to be proactive and not be afraid to get shut down.  This way you will never have any regrets with dating and you will know you tried your very best.  The way you can know you tried your best is you will be actively dating and meeting new people.